How To Stop People From Walking All Over You!

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"It’s better to let someone walk away from you than all over you."
~ Unknown

 

Work Relationships

 

Recently, I was speaking with one of my coaching clients who expressed she was stressed and feeling out of control. She said she was "frustrated because she could not get an employee to do what she is paying him to do."
 

The more she spoke about the situation, the worse she felt as she realized that she had experienced many similar situations over the course of her life.
 

She declared she wanted to "stop people from walking all over me."
 

She went on to explain that the people she had asked for advice previously had told her to "just get over it; stop worrying about it; don't make a mountain out of a molehill; stop being so picky; etc."
 

This advice just made her feel worse. She felt that they were saying that she should just ignore the fact that the situation with this employee was not what she would want it to be.
 

She felt that they were saying that she was the cause of the problem...not the employee.
 

Yet, the situation was on her mind constantly because she felt that there was something wrong with her because she wanted the situation to be different. By the time she came to me for support, she was at her wit's end and deeply upset with herself.
 

Perhaps you are experiencing a similar situation right now in your life.
 

When she finished explaining her situation and how she felt, I began by asking her a series of questions to assist her in clearly identifying the qualities of an employee who would be perfect in assisting her to achieve her goals.
 

Next, I asked her which of those qualities her current employee demonstrates.....and then I asked her which ones the current employee does not demonstrate.
 

As she answered the questions, my client became more confident that she deserves to work with someone who matches the qualities she wants her employees to demonstrate. By the end of our coaching session, she said she felt 'in control’ of the situation again.
 

She began to realize that she had more than a ‘right’ to work with someone who demonstrates those qualities. In fact, she realized that she was actually Accountable to ensuring that the position was filled by someone who matched the qualities perfectly so that the company goals could be achieved with velocity and ease!
 

Her tears had stopped, a smile returned to her face, and she told me that she now intends to share with the current employee the list of qualities and responsibilities required to be fulfilled by the person in that position. And, she intends to work out a plan with the current employee to give the person time to find another position while she is in the process of attracting a more perfect employee.
 

Now that you know what she is going to do, what will you do to stop people walking all over you?
 

You may want to begin by asking yourself these questions:
 

What situations in my life would I like to improve?
 

Who are the people in my life who lift my energy?
 

How do those people lift my energy?
 

How are those people different from the other people in my life?
 

How can I spend more time with the people who lift my energy?
 

In any given situation, whatever we are allowing we are attracting.
 

If we don't like the way we are being treated by others, we can use these situations to become clear about how we do intend to be treated.
 

We begin to change our lives – stop people walking all over us -- by using these less-than-perfect situations to assist us in identifying what would be more perfect to attract in order to achieve our goals with greater velocity and ease.
 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts on this Attraction Tip in the comment box below.

 

As always, thank you for sharing this Attraction Tip with your team members, co-workers, friends and family…any one you feel would enjoy being more ‘attractive’ with what they desire to have in their lives to achieve their goals with velocity and ease.
 

If you enjoyed this post, you may also like these posts on Personal Accountability... CLICK HERE to read them.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!
 

1. I invite you to learn how to use ‘Personal Accountability’ along with the other 10 Energy Surges by watching this short video.

http://60daystosuccess.chi-to-be.com/starthere/


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2. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

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3. Read Chapters 4, 5 and 11 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.

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4. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster


 

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5. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group.
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6. Join the Tips For Sustaining Happy Teams group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296

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7. Watch my YouTube tips on 'What Not To Do When Building A Team' here:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx


 

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Stacey

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The Global Expert for Attracting, Expanding
and Retaining Passionately Successful Teams


Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CEO, Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
 

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I am writing to you with bittersweet feelings

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As I write to you, it is with mixed emotions.
 

First, I am thrilled that the 1st edition of my #1 best-selling book, Chi-To-Be!, is almost sold out. My goal for this book has been achieved – to help thousands of people to achieve their goals with greater velocity and ease!
 

And, I am also feeling a bit sad to see them all go, knowing there will never again be a first edition of this book.
 

So, to keep my energy high, I am choosing to focus on the fact that the 1st edition copies will now become a collector’s item.
 

Do you have your copy yet?
 

If not, then I encourage you to click here now to get yours from Amazon: http://amzn.to/2rJinNh.
 

There are still a few new copies available at $16.95.
 

Of course, beyond the fact that they are now collectible…every page offers you a way to keep your energy high so you can achieve your goals with velocity and ease.
 

So, what do you intend to achieve with the help of my book?
 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts in the comment box below.

 

As always, thank you for sharing this post with your team members, co-workers, friends and family…any one you feel would enjoy being more ‘attractive’ with what they desire to have in their lives to achieve their goals with velocity and ease.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!
 

1. I invite you to learn how to use ‘Personal Accountability’ along with the other 10 Energy Surges by watching this short video.

http://60daystosuccess.chi-to-be.com/starthere/


Fastst Attractiion Mastery Self-Study Program

2. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

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3. Read Chapters 4, 5 and 11 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.

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4. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster


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5. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group.
Chi-To-Be! Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/ChiToBe/


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6. Join the Tips For Sustaining Happy Teams group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296

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7. Watch my YouTube tips on 'What Not To Do When Building A Team' here:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx


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8. To learn about upcoming The Solution Power Hour Calls please join our Facebook group Positive Solutions from Chi-To-Be!

Thank you, for requesting to receive these Weekly Attraction Tips,
Stacey

Stacey Hall, L.S.H., C.N.T.C., C.A.C, C.R.T.S.
The Global Expert for Attracting, Expanding
and Retaining Passionately Successful Teams


Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CEO, Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
More Attraction Tips at www.chi-to-be.com/attraction-tips
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Do you wait until the last minute for the best deal?

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Yup, that’s me…waiting until the very last minute expecting the price of what I want to buy to go down.
 

Except when something I want is about to sell out, because I know that the smaller the quantity the more valuable the item becomes.
 

And, that is what is now happening with the few remaining 1st edition copies of my #1 best-selling book, Chi-To-Be!
 

Why have so many people bought this book?
 

Because it has helped them and their friends and family to rise above their challenges to achieve all the goals they intend to achieve!
 

Who do you know who would love to be able to rise above their challenges?
 

It will be quite awhile before I begin working on a 2nd edition and there are only a few 1st edition copies still available through Amazon at: http://amzn.to/2rJinNh.
 

So, if you wait much longer, you will wind up paying more for my success-boosting book.
 

What do you want to be able to achieve in your life?
 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts in the comment box below.

 

As always, thank you for sharing this post with your team members, co-workers, friends and family…any one you feel would enjoy being more ‘attractive’ with what they desire to have in their lives to achieve their goals with velocity and ease.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!
 

1. I invite you to learn how to use ‘Personal Accountability’ along with the other 10 Energy Surges by watching this short video.

http://60daystosuccess.chi-to-be.com/starthere/


Fastst Attractiion Mastery Self-Study Program

2. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

FMASS video


CTB 3 books 480x480
3. Read Chapters 4, 5 and 11 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.

Fastest Attraction Master

4. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster


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5. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group.
Chi-To-Be! Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/ChiToBe/


Linked In Group
6. Join the Tips For Sustaining Happy Teams group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296

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7. Watch my YouTube tips on 'What Not To Do When Building A Team' here:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx


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8. To learn about upcoming The Solution Power Hour Calls please join our Facebook group Positive Solutions from Chi-To-Be!

Thank you, for requesting to receive these Weekly Attraction Tips,
Stacey

Stacey Hall, L.S.H., C.N.T.C., C.A.C, C.R.T.S.
The Global Expert for Attracting, Expanding
and Retaining Passionately Successful Teams


Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CEO, Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
More Attraction Tips at www.chi-to-be.com/attraction-tips
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Do You Have Enough Courage To Attract An Accountability Partner?

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“My wife, my mom, my father, they are physically pushing me," he said. "All my guys have been shoving me, which is way tougher than any 45-m.p.h. wind gust. They are really making me work hard, which is what I want."
– Nik Wallenda

 


 

Daredevil #Nik Wallenda successfully walked between skyscrapers on high wires suspended hundreds of feet above downtown Chicago, accomplishing the historic feat without a harness or a safety net—and in one case blindfolded.
 

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What the self-described "family man that does what daredevils do" did have was the full support of his wife, Erendira, and parents Terry and Delilah, all of whom are veteran wire walkers themselves…and who made it possible for Nik to break 2 more world records…holding 9 world records!
 

And, while Nik gets the world’s credit, he gives all of his credit to his family…his first and foremost Accountability Partners. He is often quoted as feeling it takes even more courage on the part of his family to keep their commitment to (literally) keep him on track and on the wire to achieve his HUGE goals.
 

There is a trick to being someone who attracts Accountability Partners this powerful and courageous…who believe in us, encourage us, and provide us with the support to help us keep the commitments we have made to our self.
 

So, here’s the trick…in order to attract a truly supportive Accountability Partner, we must be willing to be supported.
 

Sounds simple, yes?
 

Yet, for most people, it is so very challenging and takes great amounts of courage!
 

Most people have had so much experience in being disappointed and let down by others that just the thought of depending upon another person strikes fear in their heart. As a result, they have learned how to depend only upon their self and put up walls to keep others from getting too close.
 

They rarely share with others their goals and deepest dreams. They often pretend to others that everything is just fine in their lives.
 

And, as a result, they are left wondering why they feel so alone.
 

The trick, therefore, lies in shifting our focus from distrust of others to a belief that we deserve to receive support…and then creating clarity for our self as to the type of person who would be perfect to have in our lives as an Accountability Partner.
 

Identifying the qualities, characteristics, attributes, talents and personality traits of the type of person we would enjoy having as our closest friend makes it much easier to recognize that person when we meet them.
 

And, with that clarity, we also gain more confidence and courage to make requests of others to be of support in specific ways that will make it possible for us to achieve our goals with greater velocity and ease. The more specific our requests…the easier it is for others to respond to those requests and fulfill them...if, of course, they match the profile of our perfect Accountability Partner.
 

If you would like to increase your ability to attract an Accountability Partner who believes in you, encourages you, and provides you with support to help you keep the commitments you have made to yourself, click here to watch my short video in which I share with you the benefits of the Strategic Attraction Planning Process ... http://fastestattraction.chi-to-be.com/home/
 

Then, I would love it if you would scroll down to the bottom of this post and share the inspirations you have received from this blog.
 

I AM saying the following affirmation:

Today, there is a real possibility that…I AM boosting my courage by reaching out for support to my Personal Accountability Partners.

 

This is my Intentional Activity for today:

Today, I will remember Chi-To-Be! Energy Surge #11 to reach out for support to my Personal Accountability Partners who believe in me, encourage me, and provide me with chi-lifts to expand and sustain my own energy and power to keep my commitments to myself.

 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts on this Attraction Tip in the comment box below.

 

 

If you enjoyed this post, you may also like these posts on Personal Accountability... CLICK HERE to read them.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!
 

1. I invite you to learn how about ‘Personal Accountability’ along with the other 10 Energy Surges by watching this short video.

http://60daystosuccess.chi-to-be.com/starthere/


Fastst Attractiion Mastery Self-Study Program

2. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

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3. Read Chapters 4 and 11 in Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.

Fastest Attraction Master

4. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster


 

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5. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group.
Chi-To-Be! Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/ChiToBe/

 

Linked In Group
 

6. Join the Tips For Sustaining Happy Teams group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296

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7. Watch my YouTube tips on 'What Not To Do When Building A Team' here:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx


 

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8. To learn about upcoming 'The Solution' Power Hour Calls please join our Facebook group Positive Solutions from Chi-To-Be!

Thank you, for requesting to receive these Weekly Attraction Tips,
Stacey

Stacey Hall, L.S.H., C.N.T.C., C.A.C, C.R.T.S.
The Global Expert for Attracting, Expanding
and Retaining Passionately Successful Teams


Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CEO, Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
 

More Attraction Tips at www.chi-to-be.com/attraction-tips
 

Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC

 

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The 5 Questions To Ask Yourself To Make The Most Attractive Decisions – Every Time!

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“Every decision you make, makes you.” -- Cassandra Clare

 

Asking someone else to tell me what to do was always my fearful, lazy, wimpy way out of making a decision.
 

Of course, my internal ‘knowingness’ would always tell me what the ‘right’ decision was for me. Yet, I often did not have the courage to make and act upon that decision. So, I would continuously ask others around me what they thought I should do…..hoping they would help let myself off the hook.
 

And, so most of the decisions I made in the past were actually made by other people for me.
 

As a result, my life was created by other people and I was not fully happy and I was not achieving the goals I wanted to achieve.
 

Thankfully, out of the blue…while brushing my teeth one morning…I realized that all choices are made from 1 of 2 motivations.
 

That was the day I automatically stopped asking other people what I should do and I began asking myself 5 questions…which always lead me to the most powerful choice for me and which I always have the courage to make and take action on.
 

The 2 Motivations within All Decisions
 

Most, if not all, spiritual belief systems are based on the concept that the two most powerful energies are ‘love’ and ‘fear.’
 

Love is the harmonizing empowering force of nature while Fear is the exact opposite. Fear generates anger, frustration, confusion, agitation, and dis-harmony.
 

And, both Love and Fear are contained within every decision we choose to make. Decisions made from Love will be quite different than those based on Fear.
 

You may wish to take a moment now to consider a decision you made recently. Did you base your decision on the principle of Love or was your decision generated from Fear?
 

The 5 Questions To Ask To Make The Most Powerful Decision
 
If you agree that all decisions are based upon Love or Fear, then it makes sense that there are 5 questions that make it easy to know our options and which option we will choose as our decision.
 

The questions are:
 

1. Coming from Fear, why would I choose not to do what I am considering?
 

2. Coming from Love, why would I choose not to do what I am considering?
 

3. Coming from Fear, why would I choose to do what I am considering?
 

4. Coming from Love, why would I choose to do what I am considering?
 

5. Of all the answers I gave to the first 4 Questions, which one felt the strongest in my body (not the best, not the worst, just the strongest)?
 

For Example
 

While writing my book, Chi-To-Be!, I faced a decision directly related to one of the key Goals of my B-All
 

My decision: Whether or not to ask for an extension in submitting the first draft of the book.
 

Here is how I applied the 5 questions of the ‘Chi-To-Be! Solution Process™ to arrive at an empowering decision:
 

Question #1: Coming from Fear, why would I not ask for an extension?
I don't want to appear unreliable. I am concerned that the publisher will not want to publish the book if the first draft is not provided on time.
 

Question #2: Coming from Love, why would I not ask for an extension?
If I am giving Love to my publisher, then I want to be sure I don't delay their plans for the book. If I am giving Love to me, I would not ask for an extension because I want to be seen as reliable and able to keep my word.
 

Question #3: Coming from Fear, why would I ask for an extension?
I am concerned that what I have written is not good enough to submit.
 

Question #4: Coming from Love, why would I ask for an extension?
If I am giving Love to my publisher, I want to be sure that what I submit is worthy of being published. Asking for an extension now provides sufficient notice and is the most loving action I can take. In this way, the publisher is prepared to give attention to other projects and can co-create with me a new deadline that works for us both. If I am giving Love to me, an extension would give me the time to submit a draft that I truly feel is my best work without extra pressure. This allows me to write in a relaxed and joyful way...which is what is most empowering for both me and the publisher.
 

Question #5: Which answer felt strongest in my body?
The answer to Question #4.
 

MY DECISION: To come from Love and request an extension.
 

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A Gift for You
 

To make it even easier for you to learn this Solution Process, I recorded an audio coaching series that I am making available to you for FREE! Listen now or at your convenience by visiting www.talkshoe.com and entering Call ID 54560.
 

After listening to this audio coaching series on The Solution Process, my clients report to me that they feel clear-headed, empowered, and able to move forward with their decision immediately.
 

Tara R. was attracted to the Chi-To-Be! Mastery Coaching™ Program at one of the busiest times in her life. Here’s how she made the decision whether or not to say ‘yes’ to herself to participate:
 

Question #1: Coming from Fear, why would I not say Yes to the Chi-to-Be! Mastery Coaching™ Program?
Fear of becoming overwhelmed with “to do’s”, which stresses out me and my family. I could appear as a “flake” for agreeing and then not being able to catch up/keep up and contribute to the deadlines.
 

Question #2: Coming from Love, why would I not say Yes to the Chi-to-Be! Mastery Coaching™ Program?
Because I love my family and know I am no good to anyone or anything when I am in a state of overwhelm. If I cannot contribute with full attention and respect, then it would be more respectful to say no at this time.
 

Question #3: Coming from Fear, why would I say Yes to the Chi-to-Be! Mastery Coaching™ Program? Accepting from Fear that I would be missing not only a wonderful opportunity God has put right into my lap, but also missing an opportunity that provides EXACTLY the tools I’ve needed to achieve my Goals. I’ve been missing the answer to “How do I….?”
 

Question #4: Coming from Love, why would I say Yes to the Chi-to-Be! Mastery Coaching™ Program?
Because I am learning to trust God’s hand in my life; I am learning to feel His Love and guidance in my gut. I am learning to see the incredible clues/opportunities unfold in front of my eyes. That is what happened here. These words appeared in my mind’s eye: “Why Not?” and “Love.” I felt contrary to my ‘logical’ sense that by accepting this invitation I would receive and give blessings very important to achieving my B-All™.
 

Question #5: Which answer felt strongest in my body?
The answer to Question #4.
 

MY DECISION: To participate in the Chi-to-Be! Mastery Coaching™ Program because taking part will help me on both my career and personal levels, as well as giving me an opportunity to offer the blessing of sharing my experiences. WIN:WIN!
 

Again, if you want to make decisions as easily as Tara made hers and I made mine…and we continue to do so for every decision…I recorded an audio coaching series that I am making available to you for FREE! Listen now or at your convenience by visiting www.talkshoe.com and entering Call ID 54560.
 

Then, be sure to return here to share your experiences, insights, inspirations and questions about using ‘Chi-To-Be! Solution Process™.
 

(And, if you want to know more about how the Chi-To-Be! Mastery Coaching Program can help you achieve your goals with greater velocity and ease, please send an email to me at stacey@staceyhallonline.com. I will personally arrange a time for us to chat by phone so I can answer your questions at no charge.)
 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts on this Attraction Tip in the comment box below.

 

If you enjoyed this post, you may also like these posts on The Solution Process... CLICK HERE to read them.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!
 

1. I invite you to learn how to use ‘The Solution Process' along with the other 10 Energy Surges by watching this short video.

http://60daystosuccess.chi-to-be.com/starthere/


Fastst Attractiion Mastery Self-Study Program

2. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

FMASS video


CTB 3 books 480x480
3. Read Chapter 10 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.

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4. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster


 

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5. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group.
Chi-To-Be! Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/ChiToBe/

 

Linked In Group
 

6. Join the Tips For Sustaining Happy Teams group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296

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7. Watch my YouTube tips on 'What Not To Do When Building A Team' here:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx


 

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8. To learn about upcoming The Solution Power Hour Calls please join our Facebook group Positive Solutions from Chi-To-Be!

Thank you, for requesting to receive these Weekly Attraction Tips,
Stacey

Stacey Hall, L.S.H., C.N.T.C., C.A.C, C.R.T.S.
The Global Expert for Attracting, Expanding
and Retaining Passionately Successful Teams


Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CEO, Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
 

More Attraction Tips at www.chi-to-be.com/attraction-tips
 

Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC

 

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Would You Get Out of Bed If…

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“Ordinary riches can be stolen, real riches cannot. In your soul are infinitely precious things that cannot be taken from you."

~ Oscar Wilde

 

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There is a real possibility that I AM being energized by the most important thing in the world to me.
 

If I ask you what is THE MOST IMPORTANT thing in the world to you, what would you say?
 

Would you say the most important thing to you is your children? Would you say it's giving and receiving love? Would you say it's your faith?
 

Now, imagine that the world will change tonight and tomorrow morning you will never again be able to experience what is most important to you.
 

Would you get out of bed?
 

If not - why not?
 

If so - why?
 

If you would still get out of bed, then there is something even more important to you than what you first thought.
 

And, that answer is the core reason why you do what you do every day.
 

Whatever your answer -- if you were never again able to experience it in this lifetime, then you would feel there would be absolutely no reason to get out of bed.
 

And, it is exactly the reason to get out of bed...each and every day...because it is the powerfully energizing force that makes it possible to achieve your greatest goals.
 

For Chi Master Maria Jackson, the answer is "To be free to be myself."
 

For Chi Master Paul Lofgreen, the answer is "To be a man of integrity who will be remembered for my commitment and dedication to my Wife, family, friends and community."
 

Most Important Thing

(From 'Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ulitmate B-All' http://www.chi-to-be.com/chi-store/books)

To support you in identifying what is THE MOST IMPORTANT thing in the world to you, Click Here I will guide you through a quick and simple process for knowing with certainty your answer.
 

And, to hear more of what's most important to the Chi Masters, visit the ChiToBeTV channel on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1EE873354BB510A1
 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts on this Attraction Tip in the comment box below.

 

If you enjoyed this post, you may also like these posts on Personal Accountability... CLICK HERE to read them.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!
 

1. I invite you to learn how to use ‘Personal Accountability’ along with the other 10 Energy Surges by watching this short video.

http://60daystosuccess.chi-to-be.com/starthere/


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2. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

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3. Read Chapters 1 and 11 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.

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4. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster


 

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5. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group.
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6. Join the Tips For Sustaining Happy Teams group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296

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7. Watch my YouTube tips on 'What Not To Do When Building A Team' here:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx


 

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8. To learn about upcoming The Solution Power Hour Calls please join our Facebook group Positive Solutions from Chi-To-Be!

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Stacey

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The Global Expert for Attracting, Expanding
and Retaining Passionately Successful Teams


Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CEO, Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
 

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How To Do Nothing to Get The Most Out Of Life

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Rest Stop

 

So many people feel that the only way to achieve their goals is to keep push, push, pushing their way to the top.
 

I used to be one of them.
 

Each day would be filled with as many activities as I could cram in before I collapsed in to bed from exhaustion.
 

Back then, I prided myself on 'beating the clock' by accomplishing as much as possible before time ran out.
 

And, it did eventually run out!
 

I was unable to sustain my success. Because I was not eating well, my physical body ran out of energy and my mental creativity ran dry. Because I was not loving myself, I became resentful of what I was giving to others.
 

Under doctor's orders, I was put on complete bed rest...which lasted 2 years...to
replenish, re-nourish, and recuperate.
 

It was difficult for me at the beginning of this period because I felt like I was being lazy and not being of service to others.
 

One of the few enjoyments of my recuperation process was listening to music…and I became aware of how a song is composed of both notes and rest stops...and how the music is created by the spaces between the notes.
 

I realized that I was experiencing my own rest stop in the symphony of my life.
 

As I gave myself fully to the process of resting, I began receiving the inspirations and importance of the 9th Chi-To-Be! Energy Surge…'Re-Charging Your Inner Chi.'
 

I realized that, as much as it appeared I was doing 'nothing,' I was actually doing the most important work of all. I was creating a beautiful harmony between doing and resting in order to keep my energy fully charged to be able to attain and sustain success!
 

When I stopped resisting the process of resting, I began to recover quickly. That was 8 years ago.
 

Now, I schedule rest stops in-between each meeting, phone call, social media projects and every other activity I have each day to ensure my life continues to be a beautiful symphony of productivity.
 

This week, I invite you to schedule short rest stops in-between each of your activities so your life is a beautiful composition of energy in harmony.
 

Nourish yourself, have fun, do something completely un-related to the task just accomplished, or quietly reflect on your day and receive inspiration of how to do what's next with greater ease and joy for greater success.
 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts on this Attraction Tip in the comment box below.

 

 

If you enjoyed this post, you may also like these posts on Re-charging Your Inner Chi... CLICK HERE to read them.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!
 

1. I invite you to learn how to ‘Re-Charge Your Inner Chi' along with the other 10 Energy Surges by watching this short video.

http://60daystosuccess.chi-to-be.com/starthere/


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2. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

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3. Read Chapter 9 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.

Fastest Attraction Master

4. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster


 

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5. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group.
Chi-To-Be! Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/ChiToBe/

 

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6. Join the Tips For Sustaining Happy Teams group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296

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7. Watch my YouTube tips on 'What Not To Do When Building A Team' here:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx


 

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8. To learn about upcoming Attraction Circle of Power Hour Calls please join our Facebook group Law of Attraction Circle of P.O.W.E.R.

Thank you, for requesting to receive these Weekly Attraction Tips,
Stacey

Stacey Hall, L.S.H., C.N.T.C., C.A.C, C.R.T.S.
The Global Expert for Attracting, Expanding
and Retaining Passionately Successful Teams


Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CEO, Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
 

More Attraction Tips at www.chi-to-be.com/attraction-tips
 

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5 Easy Steps To Change Frustration Into Joy!

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"Laughter and tears are both responses to frustration and exhaustion. I myself prefer to laugh, since there is less cleaning up to do afterward."

~ Kurt Vonnegut

 


 

Ever had one of those experiences where you are so frustrated with someone or something that you are beside yourself?
 

I sure have!
 

In those moments, I felt as if the world may never be right again.
 

Of course, given enough time, I eventually got over the situation and moved on.
 

One day, I began meditating on how I could move from frustration to joy in those situations as fast as possible.
 

And, I received an inspiration that worked perfectly instantly…and works every single time I choose to use it.
 

Step 1:
Notice that I am frustrated and/or angry…rather than attempting to stuff it down and ignore the feeling.
 

Step 2:
Choose to bring my emotions to a neutral place to gain clarity. Breathe in and out 3x slowly to calm my feelings.
 

Step 3:
Remember that Universe is always inspiring me forward (rather than conspiring against me). The situation is helping me to become clearer about what I want and what I don’t want to have in my life from this point forward.
 

Step 4:
Remember to look ahead and envision my ultimate goal (my B-All, End-All goal) as already fulfilled as a result of this situation occurring.
 

Step 5:
Bless the situation and choose to respond to the person and/or situation according to what will move me closer to the achievement of my B-All goal.
 

I look forward to hearing your experience of using this Process to transform frustration into joy.
 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts on this Attraction Tip in the comment box below.

 

If you enjoyed this post, you may also like these posts on Keeping Your Energy Moving... CLICK HERE to read them.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!
 

1. I invite you to learn how to ‘Keep Your Energy Moving' along with the other 10 Energy Surges by watching this short video.

http://60daystosuccess.chi-to-be.com/starthere/


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2. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

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3. Read Chapters 4 and 8 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.

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4. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster


 

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5. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group.
Chi-To-Be! Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/ChiToBe/

 

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6. Join the Tips For Sustaining Happy Teams group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296

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7. Watch my YouTube tips on 'What Not To Do When Building A Team' here:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx


 

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8. To learn about upcoming The Solution Power Hour Calls please join our Facebook group Positive Solutions from Chi-To-Be!

Thank you, for requesting to receive these Weekly Attraction Tips,
Stacey

Stacey Hall, L.S.H., C.N.T.C., C.A.C, C.R.T.S.
The Global Expert for Attracting, Expanding
and Retaining Passionately Successful Teams


Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CEO, Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
 

More Attraction Tips at www.chi-to-be.com/attraction-tips
 

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6 Ways to Be a Catalyst of Attractive Happiness!

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"Happiness is a condition that must be prepared for, cultivated and defended privately by each person."
– Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

 
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Creativity is known to be a central source of meaning in our lives. As a leading researcher in positive psychology, Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi has devoted his life to studying what makes people truly happy: "When we are involved in [creativity], we feel that we are living more fully than during the rest of life."
 

He is the architect of the notion of "flow" - the creative moment when a person is completely involved in an activity for its own sake. We get happiness when we are immersed in tasks that we find engaging and challenging.
 

Thus, creative action can function as a natural ‘antidepressant’ and make us more attractive to others.
 

To learn the 6 ways to be a catalyst of attractive happiness, click here to read the full blog I wrote for Delivering Happiness… http://blog.deliveringhappiness.com/blog/catalyzing-happiness-happy-hands-make-happy-days
 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts on this Attraction Tip in the comment box below.

 

If you enjoyed this post, you may also like these posts on Chi-Generating Rituals... CLICK HERE to read them.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!
 

1. I invite you to learn how to ‘Tend to Your Goals' along with the other 10 Energy Surges by watching this short video.

http://60daystosuccess.chi-to-be.com/starthere/


Fastst Attractiion Mastery Self-Study Program

2. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

FMASS video


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3. Read Chapter 7 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.

Fastest Attraction Master

4. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster


 

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5. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group.
Chi-To-Be! Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/ChiToBe/

 

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6. Join the Tips For Sustaining Happy Teams group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296

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7. Watch my YouTube tips on 'What Not To Do When Building A Team' here:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx


 

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8. To learn about upcoming Attraction Circle of Power Hour Calls please join our Facebook group Law of Attraction Circle of P.O.W.E.R.

Thank you, for requesting to receive these Weekly Attraction Tips,
Stacey

Stacey Hall, L.S.H., C.N.T.C., C.A.C, C.R.T.S.
The Global Expert for Attracting, Expanding
and Retaining Passionately Successful Teams


Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CEO, Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
 

More Attraction Tips at www.chi-to-be.com/attraction-tips
 

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How to Love, Love, Love 33 Ways to Be More ‘Attractive’

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“Make it a habit to tell people thank you. To express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expectation of anything in return. Truly appreciate those around you, and you'll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you'll find that you have more of it.”  --Ralph Marston

 


Throughout the ages, much has been written on the subject of love, gratitude and appreciation and its powerful connection to the Law of Attraction.  A search of the internet and a visit to your bookstore will provide you access to the world’s greatest teachers and their various practices for expressing appreciation to expand one’s ability to attract more of what is desired.
 

Over the years, I have learned from many of these teachers to whom I express my appreciation and love for introducing me to the essence of this concept.
 

As I developed a greater capacity for expressing appreciation to those who make positive contributions to my life, I also developed my own practice to obtain the highest levels of attraction.
 

My method of tapping into this continually-generating, abundant source of loving energy, is what I call my ‘Loving 33 Ways System™’.
 

Most of us focus our attention of what we have not yet attracted.  Yet, using the power of the Law of Attraction, it is important to focus our attention and appreciation on the people we have already attracted.
 

If you intend to attract more customers and you already have at least one customer, you will be focusing on activities to love 33 ways on that one customer until more customers start coming your way.
 

If you intend to write a book and you have attracted an idea for the book, then you will be focusing on activities to love 33 ways on people who support that idea until your book manifests into a best-seller.
 

If you intend to attract a life partner and you are not currently dating someone – yet, you do have friends – you will be focusing on activities to love 33 ways on your friends until your appreciation of their friendship attracts your life partner to you.
 

33 Times A Year
Various consumer behavior studies have shown that it takes on average 33 different contacts with a customer for them to feel appreciated by the business. That’s 33 proactive contacts after the person has already become a customer! We can apply the same principle to all the people in our life we appreciate.
 

A few of these appreciation activities are birthday cards, sharing information of value related to their personal and professional interests, and providing referrals to other people who they would enjoy meeting, etc.
 

Here are a few ways that Chi-To-Be! Master™ Tara R. shows appreciation to the people who contribute to her life…
 

“I started last week by offering to pick up one of my team coaching clients and bring her to a local farmers market to show her around. Not only did she appreciate this, but I felt so blessed to have this time with her, and we both learned a lot from the local farmers. I loved another client in this way:  instead of simply dropping off prepared chicken broth as I usually do, I brought the supplies over and we made a batch together. I received the blessing of supporting my client in creating responsibility and ownership of her own health recovery.  An unexpected, and equally great, by-product is her husband LOVED coming home to the smell of the broth cooking and is now making his own health changes.” 
 

How do you show appreciation to those who contribute to your life?
Thank you for sharing your insights and ideas with me using the Comments section below.

 

If you enjoyed this post, you may also like these posts on The Power of Love... CLICK HERE to read them.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!
 

1. I invite you to learn how to ‘Tend to Your Goals' along with the other 10 Energy Surges by watching this short video.

http://60daystosuccess.chi-to-be.com/starthere/


Fastst Attractiion Mastery Self-Study Program

2. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

FMASS video


CTB 3 books 480x480
3. Read Chapter 6 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.

Fastest Attraction Master

4. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster


 

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5. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group.
Chi-To-Be! Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/ChiToBe/

 

Linked In Group
 

6. Join the Tips For Sustaining Happy Teams group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296

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7. Watch my YouTube tips on 'What Not To Do When Building A Team' here:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx


 

Talkshoe
8. To learn about upcoming Attraction Circle of Power Hour Calls please join our Facebook group Law of Attraction Circle of P.O.W.E.R.

Thank you, for requesting to receive these Weekly Attraction Tips,
Stacey

Stacey Hall, L.S.H., C.N.T.C., C.A.C, C.R.T.S.
The Global Expert for Attracting, Expanding
and Retaining Passionately Successful Teams


Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CEO, Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
 

More Attraction Tips at www.chi-to-be.com/attraction-tips
 

Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC

 

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