The #1 Way To Stop Taking Things Personally

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“Don't Take Anything Personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won't be the victim of needless suffering.” – Don Miguel Ruiz

 
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Don’t take things personally….yeah, right! Easier said than done!!
 

I used to take anything and everything people said personally. If they looked at me in a strange way, I took it personally. If they seemed angry when they talked with me, I took it personally. If I was not invited to participate in an event or gathering, I took it personally. If they forgot to tell me something and I found out another way, I took it personally.
 

I was miserable all day … every day!
 

People kept telling me to get a ‘thicker skin.’ I did not know how to do that.
 

However, I did find a way to become “immune to the opinions and actions of others” and to stop suffering so I can create closer relationships with others and feel happiness all throughout my day.
 

Take a moment to choose now if you want to continue to be hurt and disappointed by the actions of others…or if you will read on to discover how I learned to rise above what others do so you can also move forward towards your goals with velocity and ease.
 

Thanks for continuing with me as we explore how we can rise above what others say and do…and become ‘immune’ to their actions.
 

The #1 way I discovered to stop taking things personally is to ask questions!!
 

One day, I was complaining to someone about how hurt I felt by the actions of another person. The person listening to my complaint stopped me by saying, “Do you know for sure that the person intended to hurt you?”
 

I thought about the question for a moment. The person who I felt hurt my feelings was a long-time friend. That was the reason why what she said felt so impactful to me. And, although, I did take personally what she said, I did not know for sure if she meant to say it to be hurtful…or helpful.
 

There was only one way to find out – ask her if she had intended to be cruel and hurtful with her comments.
 

Because I did not want to end our long-term friendship without knowing, I summoned up the courage to ask her what she meant by what she said.
 

As it turned out, I actually did not hear her correctly. What she actually said and what I thought I heard were two different statements. Through my own filter created by my past experiences, I added context to what she said.
 

By asking her to clarify what she said, I discovered that I had made assumptions about what she said…and it was those assumptions that caused me to feel badly. My hurt feelings were caused by my own thoughts.
 

As a result of that experience, I wondered how often I had made assumptions in other situations where I felt the other person had wronged me.
 

I resolved that in the future, as soon as I notice myself taking something personally, I will ask the other person questions to clarify what I feel I heard or thought I experienced.
 

Some questions that I ask are…
1. Would you please repeat what you said? I am not sure I heard it fully.
2. Can you explain to me what you mean by what you just said?
3. Was there a reason that you chose not to include me in (meeting, event, gathering, etc.)?
4. I noticed while I was talking that you had a strange look on your face. What
do you feel about what I just said?
 

I have found that 9 times out of 10, what was causing me to feel hurt or uncomfortable had nothing to do with me.
 

In the 1 out of 10 times, it does…asking questions for clarification helps me and the other person to resolve whatever issue may be developing between us.
 

And, I use these experiences in developing my Strategic Attraction Plans to attract the type of people I choose to have in my life. To learn more about how creating your own Strategic Attraction Plan can assist you to attract more supportive people into your life, visit www.BeAnAttractionMaster.com.
 

Chi-To-Be! Attraction Master™ Corey S. provides insight to his relationship with this Agreement: "I used to allow others to 'grind my gears'. Now I realize and understand that we all have different ways in which we view life. My interpretation of a situation may be completely different from another's and, from that understanding, I can let go of whatever negative thoughts arise because I no longer allow their lives to affect mine."
 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts on this Attraction Tip in the comment box below.

 

If you enjoyed this post, you may also like these posts on Harmoniously Powerful Agreements... CLICK HERE to read them.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!
 

1. I invite you to learn how to ‘Tend to Your Goals' along with the other 10 Energy Surges by watching this short video.

http://60daystosuccess.chi-to-be.com/starthere/


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2. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
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3. Read Chapter 4 and 5 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.


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Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
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Why Affirmations Don’t Work

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"Words have no power to impress the mind without the exquisite horror of their reality." ~ Edgar Allan Poe

 

Why Affirmations Dont Work
 

Recently, a friend asked me to give her my honest opinion as to whether I believe an affirmation could work in a specific situation that she is experiencing.
 

She said that she was feeling challenged by the desire to register for an event versus the reality of the funds that are currently in her bank account.
 

She went on to say that she was receiving encouragement from other people to register for the event and then say affirmations that the money she needs will manifest.
 

Since she knows that I do use affirmations in my life, she asked if I agreed with the advice she was receiving.
 

I emphatically told her 'NO!'
 

I explained that there was a time in my life when I was in the exact same situation -- 3x! It took me 3x to finally get the lesson.
 

I chose to take a series of trainings....despite the fact that I did not have funds to pay for the trainings, which each cost 1000s of dollars. The organizers of the trainings kept encouraging me to register any way and then 'stay positive' and 'expect miracles to occur'. I was encouraged to put the registration fees on my credit card or beg and borrow the money from friends and then figure out later how to pay them back as a result of the information I would learn from the training.
 

So, I stayed positive -- and I said affirmations -- and I borrowed the money and my credit card reached the limit and I participated in the trainings (which did not provide the information of how to manifest money).
 

I enjoyed the trainings, yet nothing had changed in my ability to manifest money. Unless I count the fact that I had mastered how to beg and borrow money from my friends...which did not feel good to me.
 

Yet, one important change did occur...I realized that affirmations alone do not work.
 

I realized that affirmations are important because they do support me in keeping a positive attitude and lifting my spirits ... which is essential in being able to manifest what I desire.
 

The key, though, to making affirmations work is to allow myself to first be in the reality of my situation...without making myself wrong. In other words, to acknowledge that I desire to register for a training and currently I may not have the funds to do so.
 

Once I accept where I am in relation to where I intend to be, I can then use Chi-To-Be! Energy Surge #3 -- Tending To Our B-All Garden and recognize that I am in the seeding stage of achieving my goal to attract the funds I require.
 

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And, just as if I was putting the seeds of a rose bush into the soil, I am putting the seeds of my goal into my imagination so that they can grow and bloom in their own natural way.
 

My role in the process is to continue to take 'actions' -- not just say 'affirmations' -- that will feed and nourish those seeds.
 

Which is why I say affirmation alone do not work.
 

Affirmations which inspire intentional activities do work!
 

And, as I continued to explore and discover, I received more inspirations...and I created my own training class...which I began teaching in 1998...and which actually does train people in how to become attraction magnets for all they desire. It is called the 'Fastest Attraction Mastery Self Study Program' and more details are provided below so you can to check it out.
 

I invite you to take a moment now to meditate on whether you feel affirmations alone are enough to achieve your goals.
 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts on this Attraction Tip in the comment box below.

 

If you enjoyed this post, you may also like these posts on Tending To Your Goals... CLICK HERE to read them.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!
 

1. I invite you to learn how to ‘Tend to Your Goals' along with the other 10 Energy Surges by watching this short video.

http://60daystosuccess.chi-to-be.com/starthere/


Fastst Attractiion Mastery Self-Study Program

2. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

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3. Read Chapters 3 and 4 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.


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4. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster

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5. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group and/or the Chi-To-Be! LinkedIN group.
Chi-To-Be! Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/ChiToBe/
Chi-To-Be! LinkedIn group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296


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6. You can watch past Blab's on YouTube here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx

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7. Watch my YouTube tips on 'What Not To Do When Building A Team' here:
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx


 

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8. To learn about upcoming Attraction Circle of Power Hour Calls please join our Facebook group Law of Attraction Circle of P.O.W.E.R.

Thank you, for requesting to receive these Weekly Attraction Tips,
Stacey

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The Global Expert for Attracting, Expanding
and Retaining Passionately Successful Teams


Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CEO, Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
 

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How to Get to The Blooming Phase of Your ‘Attractiveness’ Faster!

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“A garden always gives back more than it receives”

-- Mara Beamish

Tending Your Goals
 

I am someone who enjoys giving my attention to a variety of projects at the same time. I am a great multi-tasker.
 

And it used to be a bit crazy-making for me when I would give the same amount of attention to each project and yet the amount of time for the results to show up would always be different. In other words, I thought equal attention would mean equal results. So, I would often get frustrated when my reality was different from my expectations.
 

In sharing one of my frustrating experiences with a friend, they encouraged me to get out from behind the computer and spend more time in nature…if for no other reason than I might feel more relaxed and gain a different perspective on the situation.
 

This ranks as one of the best pieces of advice I have ever received because what I learned in nature is what makes it possible for me to be even more ‘attractive’ to what I intend to attract.
 

While hanging out in the park near my home, I took special notice of the grass, the trees, and the flowering bushes. I noticed that each one grew to be its own size and shape…despite receiving the same amount of water and nutrients from nature. If any of the bushes were the same size and shape, it was because the landscapers had cut and trimmed them into an artificial shape.
 

That’s the moment I realized that I had not been treating and tending to my projects and goals in an organic and natural way. I was also pushing and forcing them to fit a certain mold or expectation.
 

I made a conscious choice at that moment to trust that the outcome of each of my various projects will be exactly what I intend them to be…as long as I focus on giving each project what it requires for as long as it requires to grow fully into a blooming stage.
 

Now, I like to think of the cycle of achieving my goals as the same one I must respect when tending to my garden. This concept is not new. Many people throughout history have compared the development of a business or project to the life cycle of nature.
 

What I love about this concept is that it provides me with a consistent energy surge – a reminder that while I focus on achieving my B-All – some of my goals along the way will be easier to achieve when certain specific conditions are in place.
 

The 4 stages of attractive goal achievement are similar to the stages of the growth of a garden: Seeding, Sprouting, Blooming and Resting.
 

During the Seeding stage, it is reasonable to expect that it is going to take a certain amount of time and a lot of concentrated energy before we will ever see that first sprout. Each activity implemented and completed towards your goal will require much planning and fore-thought to ensure that it will produce a result…even a small one.
 

In the Sprouting stage, you are beginning to produce the proof that your efforts in the Seeding stage are paying off. However, your goal or project is still not anywhere close to fully blooming. Activities centered on watering and nurturing the goal are still important to do on a daily basis. However, slightly less attention is required, which usually leaves time to start Seeding another goal or project that can also grow in your B-All Garden.
 

In the Blooming stage, all the activities you implemented in the Seeding and Sprouting stages have produced an energy surge resulting in an entire goal being achieved. This is the stage where you can now harvest the rewards of your focused attention and the celebration provides a burst of energy with which to nourish the other goals in your B-All Garden.
 

Depending upon the life cycle of the project and how much it was nurtured during the Seeding and Sprouting stages, it is likely to move into the Resting stage at some point. Most people forget that a goal may need to rest before it can bloom again with renewed and vibrant energy.
 

While the Resting stage may seem anti-climactic or even disappointing when it arrives, the benefit of having a goal in the Resting stage means there is more time to devote to the other goals and projects in your B-All Garden.
 

Although I am mixing metaphors here…it is the reason why we don’t want to put all of our eggs in the same basket.
 

Planning our year ahead to take advantage of the best times to seed our goals for the diversification of sprouting, blooming and resting stages is how you will become more ‘attractive’ and enjoy prosperity all year long.
 

This is a concept that Master Chi-Lifter Kathy Grannes has been practicing over the past year. She shares, “I watch the pole beans in my garden as they grow through the different stages eventually reaching the blooming stage as they climb the fence reaching higher and higher to their maturity. Some have climbed higher than others while still some are just starting or ‘sprouting’ their trellis journey. Now, I'm fairly certain these plants are not competing as to say- ‘Hey, I've not grown as high as that plant over there!’ Or ‘Look at me! I'm the highest growing vine of all!’ Yet, in the past I have compared myself to others. Since using the Chi-To-Be! Energy Surges, I catch myself and I am able to redirect my thoughts more often. As I grow my projects from seeding to sprouting to blooming, I am becoming masterful in how to prepare the ground to grow and nurture what I am growing, and then to harvest and process the abundant results for storage and use later.”
 

And, that is how to get to your blooming phase of your ‘attractiveness’ faster!
 

I would love to hear how you are growing your B-All Garden.  What stage are your goals and projects in right now?  How many are you growing at the same time?
 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts on this Attraction Tip in the comment box below.

 

If you enjoyed this post, you may also like these posts on Tending To Your Goals... CLICK HERE to read them.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!
 

1. I invite you to learn how to ‘Tend to Your Goals' along with the other 10 Energy Surges by watching this short video.

http://60daystosuccess.chi-to-be.com/starthere/


Fastst Attractiion Mastery Self-Study Program

2. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

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CTB 3 books 480x480
 

3. Read Chapter 3 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.


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4. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster

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5. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group and/or the Chi-To-Be! LinkedIN group.
Chi-To-Be! Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/ChiToBe/
Chi-To-Be! LinkedIn group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296


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6. You can watch past Blab's on YouTube here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx

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7. Watch my YouTube tips on 'What Not To Do When Building A Team' here:
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8. To learn about upcoming Attraction Circle of Power Hour Calls please join our Facebook group Law of Attraction Circle of P.O.W.E.R.

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Stacey

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The Global Expert for Attracting, Expanding
and Retaining Passionately Successful Teams


Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CEO, Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
 

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Who’s Got Your Back?

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“Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, “What! You, too?” I thought I was the only one.” -- C. S. Lewis

 


 
Am I the only one who makes commitments to myself and then forgets those commitments almost as soon as I make them? Probably not.
 

I believe that is why God created us with the desire to form friendships with people who support us to achieve our goals!
 

And, it took me quite a long time to learn how to attract true friendships!
 

I was disappointed many times in “friendships’ I had attracted. I would discover they would say one thing to my face and then talk about me behind my back.
 

When I had something to celebrate, they would find something negative to say to lessen my enthusiasm.
 

Rather than be accountable for their own actions, they would choose instead to talk about other people.
 

Spending time with them lowered my energy rather than raise it.
 

The people I now consider to be my friends are those who I tell about my goals and dreams. They are the people who remind me of those goals and dreams when I let life get in the way and I feel lost and confused and I forget my commitments to myself.
 

They are the people I choose to help remember their goals and dreams when they let life get in the way and they feel lost and confused and forget their commitments to their self.
 

My transformation began when I chose to feel I deserved to attract people who I could depend upon to be uplifting and supportive.
 

I chose to believe that such people existed in the world.
 

I used the Strategic Attraction Planning Process* to create a visual picture of the personality traits, qualities, virtues and talents of the people I would want to have as my friends…or as I call them now…my ‘Accountability Partnerships.’
 

Why do I use that term?
 

Because the primary quality I want all my friends to have/be is someone who is chooses to be Accountable for their own actions and beliefs…for achieving specific goals…and for receiving support to achieve those goals in exchange for supporting me to achieve my goals.
 

That’s what makes us Accountability Partners!
 

This Partnership is so much stronger than a friendship because we not only have shared interests…we also have a bond which commits us to have deep, fear-busting, spirit-lifting, prosperity-boosting conversations.
 

We have a bond that is based in kindness and generosity of spirit rather than ‘niceness’. In other words, we tell the truth to each other about where we see each other may be stopped by fear or worn-out beliefs and we lovingly hold the hand of the other person as they walk into their transformation.
 

And, we keep each other’s confidences…as if they are our own!
 

My Personal Accountability Partners assist me in utilizing the Chi-To-Be! Energy Surges™ to re-energize my energy when it begins to wane so I can stay in the highest vibration of The Attraction Zone.
 

They listen to ensure that I speak only positive encouragement to myself.
 

They check-in with me to ensure I stay on track to accomplishing the intentional activities I schedule for myself to accomplish towards my goals.
 

An Invitation to Join my FREE Personal Accountability Partnership Circle...

Many people do not yet have anyone in their life that they consider to be Personal Accountability Partners.
 

That is why I created my monthly FREE Personal Accountability Partnership Circle (it’s official title is ‘The Attraction Circle’) and anyone is welcome to join!
 

Your FREE access to the monthly Free Attraction Circle is through our Attraction Circle of P.O.W.E.R. group on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/167536036640122/
 

Join me every month via tele-conference call and chat with me and other Attraction Masters in our Attraction Circle group on Facebook to receive the love, support and encouragement that you may have been missing up until now.
 

And, even if you do have people who are Personal Accountability Partners with you already…the more the merrier…you can all join us to increase your attractiveness and achieve your goals with greater velocity and ease.
 

You can count on us to have your back!
 

Now is the perfect time to join our group at <https://www.facebook.com/groups/167536036640122/
 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts

in the comment box below.

 

If you enjoyed this post, you may also like these posts on Accountability Partnerships... CLICK HERE to read them.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!

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1. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

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2. Read Chapter 11 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.


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3. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster

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4. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group and/or the Chi-To-Be! LinkedIN group.
Chi-To-Be! Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/ChiToBe/
Chi-To-Be! LinkedIn group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296


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5. You can watch past Blab's on YouTube here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx

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6. To learn about upcoming Attraction Circle of Power Hour Calls please join our Facebook group Law of Attraction Circle of P.O.W.E.R.

Thank you, for requesting to receive these Weekly Attraction Tips,
Stacey

Stacey Hall, L.S.H., C.N.T.C., C.A.C, C.R.T.S.
The Global Expert for Attracting, Expanding
and Retaining Passionately Successful Teams


Success Coach, Speaker, Best-Selling Author
CEO, Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Copyright 2010-2017 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
 

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The #1 Answer to ‘Why Me’

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"There's not a chance we'll reach our full potential until we stop blaming each other and start practicing personal accountability." ~ John Miller

 


 

There is a real possibility that I AM Powerfully in charge of my life.
 

I recently had a conversation with a woman who was explaining to me that she felt out of control because of the demands made on her by the people in her life. She shared a litany of challenges, problems, and injustices she experienced that she said were caused by the people in her life.
 

Throughout the conversation, she often repeated the phrase, 'Why Me?'
 

Each time she said, ‘Why Me?, I replied with this question: "What is your B-All goal?'
 

And, each time, her answer was that she did not have one.
 

When she was finished venting her upsets and was a bit calmer, I explained why it is so important to have a B-All.
 

I explained to her that a B-All goal is the most important goal that one sets to achieve before they die. I also explained how important it is to keep our focus firmly centered on our B-All goal so that nothing can pull us off our path towards achieving it.
 

Without a B-All (and a commitment to achieving it), it is very easy to give our power over to other people in our lives who make requests -- as well as demands -- for our time.
 

'Why Me?' is a question asked only by people who feel victimized by the people they have allowed to be in their lives.
 

Conversely, the question -- 'How Can I Achieve My B-All with Velocity and Ease?' -- is a question asked by people who recognize that they are in charge of choosing who will receive their time, attention and energy.
 

These are the people who feel in charge of their life.
 

These are the people who refuse to let others steer them off course to the fulfillment of their greatest goal.
 

These are the people who take a breath before responding to requests from other people to determine if saying ‘yes’ to the request will move them further away…or closer to the achievement of their B-All.
 

So, if you choose to release yourself from ‘shoulds’ and obligations you feel that other people are attempting to impose on you, then take a moment now to meditate on the question: What is the greatest goal I intend to achieve before I die?
 

And, you may also want to watch my TEDx presentation on the topic of ‘Stop Shoulding On Your Self’ at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M-o3piURD0U&list=PLKv-Sx_43p_oDimzz0v_smLSpumq8FsLF&index=1
 

Once you are firmly focused on your B-All, you will more easily create new boundaries and possibilities in your relationships with others.
 

And, you will transform 'Why Me?' to 'I AM Powerful!'
 

Thanks for taking a moment now to share your thoughts

in the comment box below.

 

If you enjoyed this post, you may also like these posts on Personal Accountability... CLICK HERE to read them.
 

And here are a few tips to be even more attractive!

Fastst Attractiion Mastery Self-Study Program

1. Take the Short-Cut to 'The Attraction Zone'. Watch my short 'attractive' video at
www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com

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CTB 3 books 480x480

2. Read Chapter 11 Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Attraction Tip.


Fastest Attraction Master

3. For an added boost of energy towards setting your goals, join me and other Attraction Masters on our Facebook fan page at: https://www.facebook.com/AttractionMaster

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4. Join the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group and/or the Chi-To-Be! LinkedIN group.
Chi-To-Be! Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/ChiToBe/
Chi-To-Be! LinkedIn group: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/3832296


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5. You can watch past Blab's on YouTube here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKv-Sx_43p_pJwYZSPdQojzFTRWDZ8idx

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6. To learn about upcoming Attraction Circle of Power Hour Calls please join our Facebook group Law of Attraction Circle of P.O.W.E.R.

Thank you, for requesting to receive these Weekly Attraction Tips,
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How Giving Your Self Permission to Take a Rest Stop Makes You More Attractive

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“I want to do the best work possible, and I can only do that if I'm relaxed and have a lot of energy. And that can only come from taking time off.”
--Jason Scott Lee

 

I learned the principle of taking regular rest stops six years ago when I first began learning Nia Technique® routines with the Goal of teaching classes to help others develop greater wellness through movement. Learning the routines was my first intentional activity towards achieving my Goal.
 

I scheduled a set time each day for this intentional activity and I expected that each time I practiced my first routine I would feel more comfortable in my movements. I also expected that I would keep practicing the same routine over and over again daily until I perfected teaching it before moving on to the next routine on my list to learn.
 

What I did not expect is that I would come to a point in my practice that I simply could not stand to practice the routine one more time!
 

I began to dread the approach of my practice time. The thought of listening to the music one more time literally made my ears ache. My joy for experiencing Nia was diminishing quickly….along with my passion for achieving my Goal.
 

While taking a rest stop from practicing the new routine, I realized that I didn’t have to wait to finish that routine before I could listen to the music for a different routine. I started listening to the new music while I was driving to appointments and running errands I found I truly loved the songs.
 

As I was driving my body naturally and easily moved to the music! I became curious as to the movements of the routine. The next day, instead of pushing myself to practice the first routine, I played the DVD for the second routine. I loved it! I found my body easily took to the movements and I learned how to teach the 2nd routine very quickly. My joy for Nia was full and present and alive again!
 

Now that I had fully learned and was teaching the second routine, I felt ready to finish learning the first routine. I was amazed that when I returned to practicing that routine, the movements seemed much easier to me. I felt as if I ‘understood’ the routine for the very first time. I fell back in love with the music. I now had two routines I felt comfortable teaching.
 

Resting is not the same as being stopped on the path to our goal.
 

Resting is a conscious practice of rejuvenation. It’s a pro-active pause in the activity to catch one’s breath and to ensure there is a balance between action and non-action.
 

Master Chi-Lifter Monika Greczek explains why she takes rest stops: “Looking back to when I first started my business, I kept working until I dropped. Sundays and Mondays I would be at home in bed because I was drained, so tired that I couldn’t move, or I was sick. I never said ‘no’ to any of my clients and never gave myself a break. Now I totally understand the meaning of taking a rest stop. I take the necessary time and do the thing that I need to replenish my body, mind and soul. I take time to quiet my mind, relax my body and nourish my soul. I AM healthier and have more energy. I fulfill my daily routines, goals, and intentional activities that I have scheduled with velocity and ease. I AM so much happier and love what I do. The passion that I once lost has returned and I enjoy taking care of my clients and myself.”
 

Rest Stops Are Like Musical Interludes
 

Consider how rest periods are used in music. Take a moment now to think about your favorite song. Consider the rhythm, the melody, the phrasing of how the song is composed. When you have the chance to actually listen to the song, notice each beat and instrument. And, notice when each instrument rests. It is these rest periods that actually create the mood of the music.
 

Without the rest periods, all there would be is beat, beat, beat, beat, beat, beat, beat, beat, etc. and it would just sound like noise.
 

Together, the beats and the rest stops create what is known as music. So, without the silence, there is no music; there’s only noise.
 

Master Chi-Lifter Valerie M. shares how she takes rest stops: “As a stay-at-home mother of three young children, I can easily forget about the rest stops. Lately, I have been waking up to a quiet home before the kids begin their day. I have celebrated those moments in between, when no one else is awake and I am left to my own energy, intentions and thoughts. My husband is a professional musician and he jokes of being paid by the note....I can appreciate the value of the notes between for it makes it possible for the notes played out loud to have their true meaning. Like the shallow brook who babbled most, the opposite is always recognized.”
 

How will you know when to continue to focus and when it’s time to take a rest?
 

The answer is quite simple…as long as you feel you are ‘in the flow’ of the project and you are making progress, continue to put your energy into the project.
 

At the point at which you notice that you no longer feel energized when you think about the project…that’s the time to implement a rejuvenating rest stop.
 

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How To Clear Clutter To Be More Attractive!

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“Because we can not live without creating chaos on a regular basis, it’s important to understand the two kinds of chaos.  Active chaos is the kind of chaos we see spinning around a chef as he prepares a feast, or around a painter as she creates a masterpiece.  Active chaos has to occur to birth anything.  The key to keeping chaos active is clean up the mess and reorganize our materials between creative bursts.  Then, when the next wave of creativity hits, we are ready to dive in.”

--Terah Kathryn Collins, “Home Design with Feng Shui A-Z”

 

Clearing Clutter

I truly began to understand that keeping my life and environment free of clutter is vital to keeping my energy vibrating fully when I began learning the principles of Feng Shui.
 

Dating back to at least 4000 B.C., the Chinese have oriented their lives around the principles of Feng Shui. Feng Shui means literally Wind-Water and followers believe it is a way of using the laws of both Heaven (astronomy) and Earth (geography) to improve one’s life by receiving Chi (or ‘qi’) and keeping it flowing.
 

A common perspective of Feng Shui is the physical/tangible clutter in our environment is a metaphor for the clutter we have elsewhere in our lives…and that clutter is blocking the flow of ‘attractive’ energy to and around us.
 

In last week’s ‘Attraction Tip’ I shared a few of my ‘attractive rituals.’ Another one is to repeat throughout the day “I keep my ‘attractive’ energy flowing every day by clearing clutter.”
 

I use 3 easy and simple ‘Attractive Activities’ to keep clutter cleared.
 

The first of 3 ‘Attractive Activities’ I use to keep clutter cleared is ‘Releasing My Shoulds’
 

A long time ago, I read a bumper sticker that stated “Don’t Should On Yourself.” I took that guidance to heart.
 

It’s important to remember that life is going to become more abundant. Not less abundant.
 

The abundance in my life first appeared as not having time to read and respond to emails or return phone calls in a timely way. The messages started stacking up along with the ‘shoulds’ (I ‘should’ call that person back; I ‘should’ sit down and answer emails, etc.) and each one of those ‘shoulds’ had weight to it. Eventually, the joy of attracting abundance was lost and buried under the pile of ‘shoulds’.  So before I was able to clear the physical clutter, I first had to choose to release myself of the ‘shoulds.’
 

I chose to do the best I could each day and appreciate myself for what I accomplished…rather than focusing on what I had not done. And, as I released myself from the burden of the ‘shoulds’ I found the energy to start clearing the piles…little by little, day by day.
 

The 2nd of the 3 ‘Attractive Activities’ I use to keep clutter cleared is ‘Scheduling De-Cluttering Time Every Day.’
 

For example, every day (just like you) I receive an abundance of email requests, announcements, invitations and notifications. In order to keep this information from overwhelming me (and draining my energy), I schedule a certain amount of time each day to review this information to determine if I want to take immediate action, save it or delete it.
 

I’ve created Folders on my computer desktop to categorize the items that I want to save for future reference. Once the information is in those Folders, I don’t have to think about it again until I am ready to take action on that information. This information and any other invitations on which I will take action are scheduled into my calendar and then flagged in my email system as having been scheduled. Everything else is immediately deleted.
 

I choose how much time I want to give to clearing the clutter each day. Some days it is more and some days less. As long as I am clearing something, I know I am keeping my energy moving and staying ‘attractive.’
 

The 3rd of the 3 ‘Attractive Activities’ I use is to play the ‘Clutter Clearing Game.’
 

I play this game every day by asking myself these questions:
1. How many items can I clear today?
2. When will I schedule 15 minutes today to clear my clutter?
3. What reward or prize will I give myself for winning the Clutter Clearing Game today?
 

Each day, in addition to whatever conscious rewards I intend to give to myself, I receive surprise gifts of abundance almost immediately after clearing my clutter.
 

One of the valuable gifts I received was learning I could attract more abundance into my life by clearing clutter.
 

One day, I started to de-clutter my closet and asked myself what I was willing to give away in order to be able to attract abundance to buy something better. I noticed that everything in my closet was something I enjoyed wearing and did not want to give away. I already felt more abundant!
 

I decided instead to throw away paperwork I no longer needed. Within a day or two of clearing the paperwork clutter, I realized that I felt more satisfied with myself and stopped feeling the urge to shop. I no longer felt that I was lacking in any way. I gave the money I saved for clothes shopping as donations to charities instead.
 

Now, if I choose to shop for clothes, a home decoration, or any other item, I make it a game to identify something I will give away to charity.
 

Chi-Master Valerie M. shares her experience of becoming more ‘attractive’ by de-cluttering: “While setting up my new office. I felt it was the perfect time for de-cluttering. I felt like I was weeding my beautiful garden. I purchased a very useful desk for my sewing machines. That is the only item I added to the room. Otherwise, I enjoyed moving things out. I set up my files and threw away tons of paper clutter. Now, my room feels inviting. It feels like a place where I can focus and accomplish a lot. I already feel accomplished! I am noticing that the peace I feel in my office is continuing into other rooms, as well. I have been adding to my ‘give-away bag’ every day. My bedroom is back to being a peaceful sanctuary and I am even thinking of rearranging the furniture for a new flow of energy. What a wonderful gift!”
 

How do you de-clutter to keep your ‘attractive’ energy flowing? Thank you for sharing your tips using the Comments section below so we can all become more ‘attractive.’
 

*“Home Design with Feng Shui A-Z” by Terah Kathryn Collings, copyright ©1999 Terah Kathryn Collins, published by Hay House, Inc., P.O. Box 5100, Carlsbad, CA 92018-5100, 800/654-5125.

 

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How To Create Attractive Rituals Throughout The Day!

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“The difference between an amateur and a professional is in their habits. An amateur has amateur habits. A professional has professional habits. We can never free ourselves from habit. But we can replace bad habits with good ones.” --Steven Pressfield

 


I love the quote above for its clarity in helping me choose if I was going to remain an Attraction Amateur or develop my skills as an Attraction Master.
 

While I prefer not to think in terms of ‘bad’ or ‘good,’ I do believe that what we do habitually moves us further away from the achievement of our goal…or closer to them with velocity and ease. And, this is what creates an Attraction Master.
 

Consider for a moment what you do every day, or every week, or every month which moves you further away or closer to the achievement of your goals.
 

An ‘Attractive Ritual’ is intended to be the activating and catalyzing force behind every other attractive activity undertaken each day.
 

“Rituals are actions performed regularly with conscious and unconscious expectations. All rituals focus and activate our inner power. Ritual characteristics include cycles of repetitive actions performed in a specific way that do not have strong functional or logical content, but do have strong personal meaning.”*
 

Every professional starts their day with their own ‘attractive ritual.’ Master Chi-Lifter Tara R. shares her ‘attractive rituals’:
 

"Morning Rituals and Bedtime Rituals have changed my life. As a child, my granny Pearl encouraged me to get up early and read the Bible. As much as I tried reading that Bible daily, I hated and resented it and could not get through Genesis. Also, after having children, the idea of getting up earlier than I have to was VERY unappealing. In January of this year, I committed to read the entire Bible in a year. I also decided I would read it first thing every morning. It is now the main part of my morning ritual. Today is December 9th. I am almost completely finished. This year has been one of the best, most productive and most challenging years of my life.
 

My family has encountered huge obstacles, including a 15-year business relationship failing. Yet, I personally feel better, more grounded, more present, more loving and productive than ever. My husband and I are closer than we have ever been. I am grateful and excited to greet each day and to see what God is bringing into my life.”
 

I start my day by ensuring each one of my chakra energy centers is fully empowered to support me throughout the day. Carolyn L. Mein, D.C., describes chakras as…
“energy centers found along the mid-line of the body, extending through the torso both in the front and the back. The 1st Chakra is located around the tailbone and the 7th Chakra at the top of the head, with the rest in between. Emotions are projected and received via the energy transmitted through the chakras. Once emotions are generated or accepted into our energy field, they move through the body via the meridian system which consists of energy channels that feed all the glands, organs and systems. Emotions, like areas of the body, have specific vibrational frequencies and will accumulate in areas with the same frequency. This is why certain emotions are associated with certain areas of the body, and how the chakras are connected to the meridian system.”^
 

I say the name of the chakra and then envision the color associated with that chakra. When I feel the need for even more chi energy to be generated, I also use the affirmations provided by Carolyn L. Mein, D.C., in her book “Releasing Emotional Patterns with Essential Oils.”
 

1st Chakra – ‘Root’ located at Pubic Bone – Red
“I am one with all that is.”
 

2nd Chakra – ‘Creative’ located at Bladder – Orange
“I am complete within myself.”
 

3rd Chakra – ‘Solar Plexus’ located at Solar Plexus – Yellow
“I am conscious.”
 

4th Chakra – ‘Heart’ located at Heart – Green
“I am enough.”
 

5th Chakra – ‘Throat’ located at Throat – Blue
“I express.”
 

6th Chakra – ‘3rd Eye’ located between eyebrows – Indigo
“I know who I am.”
 

7th Chakra – ‘Crown’ located at top of head – Violet
“I am one with all that is.”
 

8th Chakra – ‘Star’ located 8” above the Crown – White
“It is my intention to return my Body, Mind and Spirit to the point of Perfection”
 

Next, I affirm "I AM making God smile today” (What would be your I AM statement?)
 

Then, I cleanse my body using a pure essential oil body wash to raise my energetic vibration, which is followed by saying prayers for those I know who are ill or who have requested assistance. Then I close my morning ritual with this statement:
 

"I am filled with appreciation, I am confident, I am blessed. I am in the flow of my safe, happy, healthy, purposeful, prosperous, productive, joyful, gentle, loving and attractive life!"
 

Throughout the day, to continue to feel and BE attractive, I will either say my morning I AM statement (above) or this one:

I touch, I feel, I breathe, I love, I stay.

 

In my experience, these I AM statements re-affirm and lift my energy, which makes me feel more energized, more powerful and more ‘attractive.’
 

Master Chi-Lifter Loralee H. shares her ‘attractive ritual: "My morning ritual begins with climbing out of bed and going for a run or to the gym to do weights. On mornings that I don't have to immediately go to work, I'll take more time getting up and do a brief meditation. I'll often do a meditation before going to sleep, connect with my guides and Higher Self, requesting help or insight on various things that came up during the day.”
 

What are your most ‘attractive rituals’? Thank you for sharing them using the Comments Section below so we can all become more ‘attractive.’
 

*Meditations and Rituals Using Aromatherapy Oils by Gill Farrar-Halls, copyright @2001 by Godsfield Press and Gill Farrer-Halls, Published by Sterling Publishing Company, Inc.
^ Releasing Emotional Patterns with Essential Oils by Carolyn L. Mein, D.C., Eighth Edition copyright ©1998 by Carolyn L. Mein, D.C., Published by VisionWare Press., http://www.bodytype.com

 

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#10 of 10 Tiny Transformations That Create An Abundantly Prosperous Life!

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"It is much easier to be a positive and prosperity-minded person when we practice the 10 Energy Surges!”   --Stacey Hall

 

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The day I chose to ‘count on’ myself to be a positive person with a prosperity outlook was the day I started to become that person.
 

I gave up ‘wishing’ and ‘hoping’ by choosing to be ‘Personally Accountable’ to myself.
 

I chose to commit to specific behaviors, actions and thoughts – I call them my 10 tiny transformations – and they transformed me into a person with a positive and prosperous outlook on life.
 

This is why I am sharing them with you...as a gift to everyone you know who would love to have a more positive outlook on life.
 

Energy Surge #10: 'Personally Accountable' to myself.
 

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#9 of 10 Tiny Transformations That Create An Abundantly Prosperous Life

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"It is much easier to be a positive and prosperity-minded person when we feel our decisions are energizing and empowering and support us to take an action from a sense of desire, passion, commitment, and/or intention.”   --Stacey Hall

 

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Are you like me? I used to become confused as soon as I was faced with making a decision or choice. I would stop to reflect on possible outcomes, yet the longer I thought about those choices, the more confused I became.
 

In an attempt to release myself from my confusion – feeling as if I could not make the right decision – I would ask other people these 4 dis-empowering words: “What Should I Do?
 

That is until I realized that by asking someone else to tell me what to do, I was abdicating my own power in my life!
 

Now I know it is much easier to be a positive and prosperity-minded person when we feel our decisions are energizing and empowering and support us to take an action from a sense of desire, passion, commitment, and/or intention.
 

Energy Surge #9: Make the ‘Best Feeling’ Choices
 

That is what I did all the time until the day I remembered most — if not all — spiritual belief systems are based on the concept that the two most powerful energies are ‘love’ and ‘fear.’
 

Love is the harmonizing empowering force of nature while Fear is the exact opposite. Therefore, decisions made from Love will be quite different than those based on Fear.
 

You may wish to take a moment now to consider a decision you made recently. Did you base your decision on the principle of Love or was your decision generated from Fear?
 

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