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Here’s your 6th Weekly Chi-Lift!…
Today, I am sharing a process I discuss in detail in Chapter 10 of ‘Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’…it’s a very simple process of ensuring that every time we make a decision, we will always know which is the right path for us to take….it’s called ‘The Chi-To-Be! Solution Process’.
By asking ourselves just 5 easy questions, we will always know the right answer to any decision or choice we must make now and in the future!
The questions help us to focus on whether our concerns about which path to take are grounded in fear or in love.
My decision: Whether or not to ask for an extension in submitting the first draft of ‘Chi-To-Be! Acheiving Your Ultimate B-All’.
Question #1: Coming from Fear, why would Inot ask for an extension?
I don’t want to appear unreliable. I am concerned that the publisher will not want to publish the book if the first draft is not provided on time.
Question #2: Coming from Love, why would I not ask for an extension?
If I consider loving my publisher, I don’t want to delay their plans for the book. If I am loving myself, I would not ask for an extension because I want to be seen as reliable and able to keep my word.
Question #3: Coming from Fear, why would I ask for an extension?
I am concerned that what I have written is not good enough to submit.
Question #4: Coming from Love, why would I ask for an extension?
From loving my publisher, I want to be sure that what I submit is worthy of being published. Asking for an extension with sufficient notice based on the liklihood that I won’t be able to meet the deadline is the most loving action I can take. In this way, the publisher is prepared to give attention to other projects and can co-create with me a new deadline that works for us both.
From loving myself, I am able to submit a draft that I truly feel is my best work without putting extra pressure on myself. This allows my to write in a relaxed and joyful way…which is what is best for me.
Question # 5: Which one of the answers above gave me the strongest ‘good’ feeling?
MY DECISION: To come from Love and request an extension.
MY ACTION AND RESULT: I called the publisher and was granted an extension to a date which worked for us both.
When you are ready to practice with The Solution Process on a decision you are making …
1. Listen to the f.ree coaching experience I recorded on The Chi-To-Be! Solution Process at http://www.talkshoe.com/tc/
2. Post your your experience of playing with this Weekly Chi-Lift on the Chi-To-Be! Facebook group or the Chi-To-Be! LinkedIN group as a self-empowering declaration and an inspiration to us all. The links to these groups are provided to the right.
3. Read Chapter 10 of ‘Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’ or Listen to Session Sessions 1 of the’Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Chi-Lift.
4. Utilize the Chi-To-Be! AChievement Guide as a guided mentoring tool in identifying what you want and intend to have towards the aCHIevement of your goals and B-All!
In addition to these Weekly Chi-Lifts, I encourage you to participate in the Chi-To-Be! conversation groups on Facebook and LinkedIN. Share the discoveries you experience as you implement these ‘intentional activities’ to empower yourself and to provide inspirations to your fellow chi-lifters.
The links to both of these groups are located to the right on this page.
Thank you, again, for requesting to receive these Weekly Chi-Lifts. The burst of power will be released to you as you implement these ‘intentional activities’.
BE Empowered — BE Powerful — Take Life By Your B-All!
Copyright 2010 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Author, Creator, Catalyst