3 Simple Steps to Stop Being Affected By Other People

“The older I get the more I try not to waste my time on negative energy.” – Christine Baranski

After years of turning my cheek and tolerating other people’s negative energy, my own energy was becoming negative. I was resentful that other people got to get away with bad behavior…and, yet, if I acted the way they did or said the hurtful statements they said…it always seemed to backfire on to me.

After many prayerful sessions ‘begging’ God for how to deal with people like this, I received guidance to “become immune and release people from your life who create drama and cause needless suffering.”

My response was “Well, that’s easier said than done. A little more guidance, please.”

Shortly after receiving this guidance, I was led to a very small and very powerful book, entitled “It Works.” It was written by ‘RHJ’ in 1926. Although only 22 pages, it’s known as ‘The Famous Little Red Book That Makes Your Dreams Come True!’

And, it provided to me “three short rules of accomplishment” which millions have tried and “know in truth that it does work.”

In the words of RHJ, the basics are:

1. Write down, in order of their importance, everything you really want. Read this list of what you want three times each day: morning, noon, and night.

2. Think of what you want as often as possible throughout the day … every day.

3. Do not talk to anyone about your plan except to the Great Power within you which will unfold to your Objective Mind the method of accomplishment.

Most importantly, “give thanks and assert credit to your Omnipotent Power” for all accomplishments. “By doing this, you gain assurance and more accomplishment, and in time, prove to yourself that there is a law, which actually works — at all times — when you are in tune with it.”

I began writing my list immediately and very quickly (less than 48 hours), I started to attract new and more positive people into my life!

As I continued to practice these 3 basic steps, I received even more inspirations, which ultimately evolved into my own easy 4-Step Strategic Attraction Planning Process, which I share in my #1 best-seller ‘Chi-To-Be!’ and at www.BeAnAttractionMaster.Com (see below).

I continue to add to my list each and every day because it is my best protection to remain immune to negative energy and to embrace even more positive energy and prosperity into my life!

Ronda Wheeler shared with me something she discovered as a result of creating her Strategic Attraction Plan:

“What I have learned this month is to be patient with myself. That it is ok to reach out for support, and that by reaching out for support does not indicate failure. That in fact it is a symbol of courage. The courage to recognize that we are not in this world to be alone, we are in this world to be of loving support to one another. I have also learned that it is ok not to feel “perfect” all the time……life happens. I AM truly recognizing that I AM human having a perfectly wonderful Spiritual Experience and it is amazing!”

Kathy Grannes also shared what she discovered when she created her Strategic Attraction Plan:
“After learning these series of questions for myself, it is easier for me to feel empowered rather than come from fear and being or feeling like a victim. When someone displays a characteristic that doesn’t sit well with me, I now say Thank You. Because the opposite of that characteristic has taught me to understand just what it is I am really desiring to attract in my life.”

If you have already been using this Process, thanks for sharing below what you have noticed changing in your life. And, if you are just starting to use this Process, thanks for sharing your thoughts and questions below.