“If it was necessary to tolerate in other people everything that one permits oneself, life would be unbearable.” –
I am often asked by my clients how to deal with the people in their life who they find to be challenging and difficult.
My reply is always to ask this question:
“What are these people saying to you that upsets you?”
Once they tell me their answer, then I ask:
“Do you ever say something similar about yourself?”
Their answer is always, ‘Yes!’.
Which is what led to my conclusion that the fastest way to release energy vampires from our lives is to stop sucking our own energy dry!
When I speak about me in ways that are demeaning, it is as if I have created an opening though which my power can drain dry….which lowers my energy.
And, taking into account the Law of Attraction, it is easy to understand how and why I attract challenging and demanding people when I am already feeling low.
It is not that the other people drained my energy.
It’s more true that when I am challenged by other people, it is a clue that I have already drained my own energy and I simply do not have the power — or compassion — to give to any one else.
According to Dr. Royal R. Rife, every disease has a frequency. And, we know that stress has a low frequency.
The good news is that a substance with a higher frequency will destroy a disease of lower frequency.
So, the simplest way to vanquish the energy vampires in our life is to keep our own energy high!
The most effective way to keep our own energy high is to practice ‘Going A.P.E.’, one aspect of Chi-To-Be! Energy Surge #6 — The Power of Love.
Click here to listen to how to Go A.P.E.:
Each night, just before I fall asleep, I review my day and I acknowledge myself for all my accomplishments and the positive qualities I demonstrated during the day just ended.
In this way, I lift my energy and re-generate my power. I feel my body relax, my mind gently becomes quiet, and my spirit feels calm. I fall asleep almost instantly — sometimes while I am still acknowledging myself — and I sleep soundly through the night.
It works each and every time!
Because it is the #1 way to vanquish my own energy-draining vampires!!
HERE’S HOW TO GET THE MOST LIFT FROM THIS WEEK’S CHI-LIFT…
1. Read Chapter 6 in ‘Chi-To-Be! Achieving Your Ultimate B-All’
2. Listen to the ‘Chi-To-Be! Basic Series CDs’ for more Energy Surges and tips related to this Chi-Lift.
3. Choose to participate and play with your fellow chi-lifters at a very high vibration by becoming a ‘BE Empowered’ or ‘BE Powerful’ Member of Chi-To-Be! For full details,click here or cut and paste this link into your browser: http://www.chi-to-be.com/members.
4. Utilize the Chi-To-Be! AChievement Guide as a guided mentoring tool in identifying what you want and intend to have towards the aCHIevement of your goals and B-All!
5. In addition to these Weekly Chi-Lifts, I encourage you to participate in the Chi-To-Be! conversation groups on Facebook and LinkedIN.
Share the discoveries you experience as you implement these ‘intentional activities’ to empower yourself and to provide inspirations to your fellow chi-lifters.
The links to both Chi-To-Be! groups and our fan page are located to the right on this page and at
Thank you, again, for requesting to receive these Weekly Chi-Lifts. The burst of power will be released to you as you implement these ‘intentional activities’.
BE Energized — BE Powerful —
Take Life By Your B-All!
Copyright 2010 Stacey Hall and Chi-To-Be!, LLC
Thanks For Riding The Chi With Me,
Stacey Hall, L.S.H., C.A.C., C.R.P., C.N.T.C
CEO & Founder
The Hall System of Strategic Wellness
Chi-To-Be! Author, Creator, Catalyst